Serendipity, my faith and my ultimate demise

Many times we have heard the saying "if you love samebody, set them free".

 until recently I have not fully understood that statement. I've
always thought it meant to give people personal freedom and they will  choose the right thing (hopefully you). 

Well, things don't work that way and often you loose.., but along the way I have learned more about life:
1) there are true loves (yes, plural)
2) you never stop loving people you have trully loved
3) serendipity is a powerful force

So what all that means?
You may go thru life and meet a lot of people, if you are blessed with smarts and looks a lot of people will like you back and as long as you don't hibernate somewhere under the rock, 

you will have opportunities for relationships short and long. 

The twist is that you may get
farther and farther away, it will hurt, it will feel like a betrayal.
That is where "let it go" comes into the picture, because after
meeting all of these dates, after having your heart torn apart, we
realize in the end who the great people in our lives were and with a
little luck, we gravitate back towards them. No worries, with great
love comes a great amount of forgivness, understanding and acceptance.
Hopefully pride does never come in front of love.
Like for many other people, I had periods in my life when I have gone
from one relationship to another, many times over, looking for that
special someone just to realize what I have always returned to the
same places. Most of the time the place will be empty, but with any
luck some day that special person will be waiting there for you
precisely for the same reason you came there.


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My favorite quotations..


“A man should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.”  by Robert A. Heinlein

"We are but habits and memories we chose to carry along." ~ Uki D. Lucas


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